Chicago has been a powerful trip for me in so many ways. Anytime spent with my brother is enjoyable and valuable. We can be completely vulnerable with each other and his wisdom is always appreciated. He and I are now finding ourselves in the same place with a pending divorces. This is something we never saw ourselves going through. We are great people with amazing hearts how could we fail right? The good thing is that we know that with failure comes success. A saying that I love states, Success develops from good choices, good choices develop from experience and experience most often develops from poor choices. Through this journey I can’t believe the things we have discovered about our selves. It is empowering to see your faults and short comings and know that you have the power to change. We went to a show last night called “Too much light makes the baby go blind” it is a compilation of 30 short plays that the cast tries to accomplish in 60 minutes. There were many that had powerful or controversial context but the one that caught my attention the most was the one where they spoke about “what would you do if you had to stay right where you are forever?” after a short monologue they shut all the doors and asked us who amongst us would become friends, enemies, lovers… What could we create together? It was so powerful to think that you can develop those things where ever you are! It was by far the most memorable one for me.

After that we went to a beautiful dinner and then went up 95 stories in the Honcock building for dessert. It was a beautiful evening.